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My new island home,
McNutt’s,
was once a haven for pirates back in the 17th century. One
seaman’s
account tells of fishermen being kidnapped at Hagar’s
Cove by the infamous pirate Ned Low (a character who
shows up in “Pirates of the Caribbean”) and
their fishing boats pillaged and burned.
Pirates on McNutt’s! Cool!
I must confess, there is a place
in my heart for pirates. As
reckless, bloodthirsty and bounty-bound as they were,
they capture my imagination. Before arriving
in Nova Scotia, I volunteered for years on the Delaware
tall ship, Kalmar Nyckel, a reproduction of the original
ship that brought the first Swedes to America in 1638. This
was a ship that made one think of Peter Pan, Captain
Hook and pirates! Indeed, during the
summer months, the ship would host “pirate sails” with
the crew (myself included) dressed up like Erol Flinn,
Johnny Depp or Geena Davis to the delight of passengers,
especially young ones. Believe me, once you start
dressing like a pirate you feel a primal connection
to those swashbuckling souls.
So recently I took my pirate lust
to the next level by reading a dog-eared copy of
Philip Gosse’s
1932 book, The History of Piracy. Always
on the lookout for ways of improving the quality of
living, I perked up at the description of the pirate
as master of his or her ship. (Yes, there were
female pirates!) Pirates, according to Gosse,
while certainly villainous, had to be, by virtue of
their chosen occupation, effective leaders. Here
is what he says:
“The master pirate had to be able to handle
his ship (in the beginning, often an unseaworthy one
until he could steal a better) in tempests and in fights,
make his way, disabled, to sheltering harbors, control
his unruly ruffians through disease and discontent,
employ the arts of the diplomat to provide himself
with a safe market on shore for his stolen wares. [Leaders]
like these are rare, and few of the respectable professions
can show more masterful personalities than those to
be met at the top of the pirate tree.”
If we take a moment to scan the
landscape from the top of our own trees, we might
sight the challenges we face in managing our own
lives, businesses, and associations. These surely require of us a diversity
of skill sets. No one approach works for everything. Our
effectiveness to manage things depends less on the
strength of one skill than on our capacity to move
smoothly and effortlessly among a host of skills, knowing
which to apply in any given situation.
I can tell you from my experience
onboard the Kalmar Nyckel that our captain (not a
pirate) had to be well-versed in lines and navigation,
crew management and shore diplomacy, emergency protocols
and preventative measures, commanding the ship and
inspiring the crew. To
the extent that we are all captains of our own ships,
managing our lives requires an equal array of skills,
and we have to know which are most appropriate within
each unique context.
Daniel Goleman, in his book Primal Leadership,
urges us to consider becoming familiar with numerous
management styles - from coaching to commanding, from
visioning to connecting, from inviting feedback to
setting the pace. Each can enhance our effectiveness
in managing our lives if we are careful in discerning
which style to apply to each particular situation. Once
again, taking time to think before we act can save
us missteps and help us to more effectively manage
our lives.
Excluding the kidnapping and pillaging
part, we can learn from our pirate friends, those
masterful multi-taskers, and at the end of the day
applaud ourselves for smoothly navigating all manner
of seas. And that’s
worth a hardy “Aarrhh!”
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